Thanzi Lamaganizidwe Pa Nthawi Ya Kulimbana Padziko Lonse

Alimi amagwiritsidwa ntchito pamavuto. Tizolowera moyo wathu, ndi mabanja athu opangidwa ndi mphamvu zoposa zomwe sitingathe.

Timayang'ana pamene mbewu yathu yonse iwonongedwa mu mkuntho wa mphindi khumi. Timakhala achisoni, Matenda atayamba kudutsa pakati pa gulu lathu. Ndipo taona malo athu ogulitsa zakudya akuwotchedwa pansi m'nthawi ya nkhondo. Timayang'ana mitengo yamsika pamene kupanga kwapadziko lonse kuli bwino, timapempherera mvula, misika, Zaumoyo ndi chitetezo. Ndipo, tsiku lililonse timapemphera kuti amvetsetse zomwe tili komanso zomwe timachita.

Pansi pa kukakamizidwa ndi mliri wapadziko lonse lapansi, modzidzimutsa ngati dziko lonse lapansi limadziwa zochepa chabe zomwe kukhala mlimi. Tikhoza kukhala kuti nthawi imodzi timalumikizidwa kwambiri komanso kulumikizidwa monga momwe tingakhalire, ndife dziko lomwe lili ndi mantha, kulephera, chisoni, nkhawa, ndi chiyembekezo. Ndipo tikukumana nazo limodzi pafupipafupi, yekha.

Monga anthu sitingapangidwe kuti azikhala patokha, zili m'chilengedwe chathu, DNA yathu, ndi mizimu yathu kukhala yocheza. Timayendetsedwa ndi makina oyankha zamankhwala kuti tipeze fuko, kupereka, kukonda, ndi kukondedwa.

Zomwe zinandichitikira zoyambirira zodzipatula, ndi malingaliro onse pamwambapa adalowa 2016. Ndidayimilira malo owundana ndi zenera, kumayang'ana ngati chimphepo chamkuntho chomwe chimakhala ngati chimphepo chamkuntho chomwe chimang'amba kumene kumayambiriro kwa nyengo yokolola. Mu mphindi zochepa, Ndinkawona ngati miyala yayikulu matalala ikugunda pansi, Nthambizo zidang'ambika pamtengo ndipo mitsinje yamadzi idatsikira m'njira. Ngakhale sindinapeze nthawi imeneyo kuwona gawo lathu lirilonse ndimadziwa kuti zokolola zathu zizipulumutsidwa, kumenyedwa, pansi pamadzi ndikuwonongeka. Kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga ndinamvetsetsa zochepa zomwe ndimakhala nazo monga mlimi wa tirigu pazinthu zina zomwe ndimafunikira kuti ndizichita bwino.

Ndinakulira ku Calgary AB ndipo ndinali ndi zaka khumi ndikugwira ntchito ku Canadian Film Viwanda ndisanayambe kugulitsa mafilimu ogulitsa matakitala ndi kusamukira ku famu ya tirigu kumidzi Saskatchewan. Mphepo yamkuntho ija inachita zambiri kuposa kungochotsa ziwonetsero zathu chaka chimenecho, zidakhudza moyo wanga, kudziona kuti ndine wofunika komanso kundisiya ndikudziona kuti ndine ndekha. Pamenepo ndinamvanso kuti ndalephera ngati mlimi, adalephera monga mkazi komanso ngati Amayi. I felt like I couldn’t provide for my family and that my only worth was in my life insurance policy. Ndinkamva ngati kuti ndikukumba manda anga kuti nditsatire maloto anga.

Ndikudziwa kuti ambiri a inu mumatha kudziwa zomwe ndimaganiza ndi zomwe ndalongosola kumene. Kulemedwa ndi nkhawa komanso nkhawa, kumverera ngati cholephera, kuda nkhawa zolipira ngongole ndikuyika chakudya patebulo la mabanja anu. Izi ndi zovuta izi sizachilendo paulimi kapena alimi. COVID-19 yatiyika tonse pamikhalidwe ndi malo omwe sitingathe kuwongolera. Pomwe tili ndi magwero osiyanasiyana ndi nkhondo zathu, tonse timagawana nawo nkhondo yofananayo. Ztsogolo zathu sizinamvepo zosatsimikizika, ndipo tikhala masiku athu ambiri tikusungulumwa tili ndi chisoni moyo womwe tidali nawo mopepuka.

Ndinkakonda kusunga chilichonse mkati, Ndinaganiza kuti ngati ndingalankhule za zakukhosi kwanga komanso zovuta zanga zingatanthauze kuti ndofooka, that I wasn’t capable, zitha kutanthauza kuti sindine wochepera, mkazi ndi wochepera Amayi. Zomwe ndaphunzira ndikuti tonse timavutika. The old mentality of ‘cowboying up?’ doesn’t actually do anyone any good, pamenepo nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa zovuta zambiri. Kuvomereza kuti ndikufunika thandizo, kuti ndimafunika kuyankhula ndi ena omwe amamvetsetsa zomwe ndimakumana ndi zomwe zinali zowopsa komanso zolimba kwambiri zomwe ndidachitapo kale. Kufunika thandizo sikutanthauza kufooka, kwenikweni ndi kukhala wolimba mtima. Limbani mtima mokwanira kuvomereza munthawi imeneyi, kukana kulola china kukuwonongerani, ndikupeza zomwe muyenera kudzisamalira, ndipo samalirani okondedwa anu.

Zaka ziwiri zapitazo, Ndinkakhala mchipinda chamisonkhano ndi 400 alimi. Tinapatsidwa mwayi woyimirira funso litatifunsa. Funso loyamba linali “kodi mudatayapo wachibale kapena mnzake kuti amwalira podzipha?” 90% chipinda chija chidayimirira, ndidaphatikizaponso. Zidasweka mtima wanga.

Ulimi siokhawo dera komanso mafakitala omwe akuvutika kwambiri, nkhawa, kukhumudwa, komanso kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena kuvutika mwakachetechete kuthokoza chifukwa cha kusala kwazinthu zamagulu omwe amakhala. Tili mu vuto la mliri wapadziko lonse lapansi zomwe dziko lapansi silinawonepo. Sitinakhalepo olumikizana ndi odalirana konsekonse monga tili m'nthawi ino.

Ngati mukumva china chake poyankha zochitika zapadziko lonse lapansi, dziwani kuti simuli nokha mu malingaliro amenewo, ndipo chidziwitso chimenecho chikuwongolereni. Tili olimba kuti mulumikizane wina ndi mnzake, kugawana wina ndi mnzake ndi kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake. Tsopano kuposa kale tikufunika kukumbukira izi. Tiyenera kukumbukira wina ndi mnzake. Tiyenera kuyang'ana pa banja lathu, anzathu, ndi anthu ammudzi mwathu. Tiyenera kuyang'ana limodzi ndi anzathu, maukonde athu, ndi mafuko athu pa intaneti komanso tikalowa, tiyenera kukhala okonzeka kumvetsera.

Please give yourself the grace to experience all of the emotions you’re feeling. Yaikulu ndi yaying'ono. Dziwani kuti simuli nokha. Ayi. Pakadali pano ndayimirira pambali panu ndipo motero wina aliyense padziko lonse lapansi lalikulu kwambiri komanso losiyanasiyana lomwe timalitcha kuti kwawo. Ngati tingathe kugawana wina ndi mnzake, thandizanani, ndipo mverani wina ndi mnzake, ndiye kuti titha kutuluka mu izi zamphamvu komanso zolumikizidwa kuposa kale.

** Ngati simumva bwino kufikira munthu yemwe mukudziwa mayiko ambiri, zigawo ndi mayiko ali ndi mafoni othandiza omwe mutha kuyimba foni. Palinso zosankha zingapo zamankhwala apa intaneti, ngati Pulogalamu Yabwino Yothandizira.